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Sunday, May 16, 2010

逃避。。

2010年5月16号 星期日
今天早上,我,我妈还有我哥,去北海拜拜,到最后才知道是问神,轮到我的时候那战童在我的手上和腰都绑了线,可能太过自由了吧,偶尔也要被绑一下,哈哈,那战童在我要离开之前说我开车和摩托都开很快,叫我小心点,这句话过后就被老妈碎碎念。sein nia 。 回来后,就呆在家一直到2点多才离开,去足球练习,在练习的时候很享受因为很久没踢球了。

就在回家的时候我差点出车祸,很危险,那车突然间停了,害我杀车杀到傻,那还没什么到家时还被困在电梯里真够倒霉,还是第一次被困电梯呢,不过我都应付得很好,很冷静。

刚才开facebook 的时候我的“好朋友”跟我聊天,说我好像一直在逃避她,她说她一直关心我看我的profile 但我却没有去看她的,我不是不想看只是我不想看到我不想看的东西,当然的我知道我没有权利去管别人写什么,这我知道!虽然说分开将近要半年了,不过那伤口还有在,当我看到我不想看得东西或有回忆的东西就如一把盐洒在我的伤口,还是会痛,我妈今天叫我收拾我的东西,我全都收拾了只有一个黄色的盒子,我不敢收拾因为全都是她送我的最后一份生日礼物, 我会装作一切都不在乎其实我很在乎她,我骗不了我自己。希望我到了中国之后可以将这回忆的痛减低。因为我知道这回忆我一生都忘不了,所以到现在我都不想找女友。因为我不想再有一个被同情的爱情,这个很伤真的很伤。不过我却在学习如何吸引异性因为我知道在工作上得罪女人是不好过的。


Tuesday, May 4, 2010

你比從前快樂

走在熙來攘往的街頭
妳不再牽著我的手
小心翼翼的將你小指勾
淚也小心翼翼的流

有些事情你在瞞著我
你終於還是開了口
淡淡一句 還是朋友
淚也如刀割

知道分手後你不難過你比從前快樂
那祝福的話叫我如何能夠說的出口
過往的歡樂是否褪色想問你怎麼捨得

不要在耳邊再說你會想我

有些事情你在瞞著我
你終於還是開了口

小心翼翼的將你的小指勾
我的手妳不再牽著

知道分手後你不難過你比從前快樂
那祝福的話叫我如何能夠說的出口
過往的歡樂是否褪色想問你怎麼捨得

不要在耳邊再說你會想我


好久没听了,很好听的一首歌~~

Sunday, May 2, 2010

Got something to share with Real Men !

Top 10: Ways To Attract Women Fast !

If you want to attract women fast, the answer isn’t pickup lines -- the answer is to develop your “Inner Game” and become a guy who naturally attracts women. As you develop as a man, from the inside out, you’ll automatically know the right things to do and say to women to spark attraction. How great is that? Check out these 10 powerful ways to attract women fast:

NUMBER 10

Learn the secret language of manhood

When you become a real man -- an independent, strong man who is on his own path -- you’ll begin to communicate differently: You’ll move differently, you’ll hold yourself differently, you’ll respond to situations differently, and you’ll use different words. It’s easy to spot guys who don’t get it or are trying to fake it, but it’s just as easy to spot the guys who do get it. Just like guitar players know whether someone is a great musician or an amateur within the first few notes, women know if you’re a real man in a matter of seconds. This is why it’s so important to work on yourself, your self-image and your “Inner Game” until you know beyond a shadow of a doubt that you’re a real man. When you do, you’ll attract women fast and naturally.

NUMBER 9

Make “certainty” part of who you are

People like certainty. If you can provide it and communicate it, you’ll be more attractive. If you can’t, it’s game over. If women think that you’re secretly a wussbag -- that you’re only acting cool, but underneath you’re a clingy, insecure guy just waiting to smother them -- they’re going to bail. But if you can communicate a strong, stable, secure, and masculine maturity, women will be less likely to flake out on you because they have more certainty about you. Learn to communicate certainty in everything you do and you’ll attract women fast.

NUMBER 8

Certainty versus teasing

I often tell guys to find fun, playful ways to indirectly answer the questions women ask. This includes the typical questions like what you do for a living and where do you live. So, you might ask, “How can I create certainty in women if you’re telling me to keep them uncertain about these things?” My answer is simple: They want certainty that their experience with you is going to be fun, not certainty about the details of your life. Keep this distinction in mind when you’re flirting -- you’ll tease women and give them a sense of certainty at the same time.

NUMBER 7

The more personal, the more universal

My mentor, Gary Ballinger, taught me something that he learned from his mentor: that the more personal something is to you, the more universal it probably is. Realize that each of your insecurities is actually quite common, then stop hiding them -- be transparent. This can be very liberating. When a woman interacts with a man who isn’t hung up about his ”hang-ups,” not only does it help her relax, it also communicates to her that she’s dealing with a real man who is comfortable with who he is. And this is precisely the kind of man that women are naturally attracted to.

NUMBER 6

Stop reliving your emotional past

It’s a fact; we humans remember things that happened in the presence of emotion. And we often respond to our emotional imprints of situations from the past, rather than to the actual event taking place in front of us -- right now. So, you got dumped three years ago, and now a woman does something that reminds you of your ex and you start freaking out about it. Becoming a man is about breaking those connections, living in the present and taking each new situation for what it’s worth in today’s terms. Women dig guys who can break through the emotional baggage of their past and live in the “now.”

NUMBER 5

Figure out where your power comes from

Have you ever asked yourself where your own personal power is based? Take a sec and ask yourself: Is your competition with other men based in a powerful, masculine and secure maturity? Or is it based in a weak, insecure and over-compensating immaturity? Do you respect mature men and treat them as worthy allies (or adversaries) or do you secretly harbor thoughts of superiority? Is your ability to persuade based on whining, tyranny and tantrums? Or is it based on credibility, authenticity and wisdom? Take a few minutes and figure out if your personal power is rooted in scarcity or abundance, then practice living your life from a place of mature, masculine power. This is great for your life, plus you get the added bonus of attracting women fast.

NUMBER 4

Realize success won’t solve your problems

Most immature guys think that money, power and success with women will solve all their problems and make them happy. How great would that be, eh? Unfortunately, it’s simply not true. Often, the things we think would make us happy create new problems of their own once they’re achieved. A mature man understands that he is responsible for his own results. He doesn’t get jealous when others succeed or angry when a successful person complains, and he doesn’t live in a fantasy world thinking that if he had success in a particular area of his life (for example, women and dating) that all of his other problems would be magically solved. Understanding this is an important step in growing up and becoming the type of mature, grounded guy women find irresistibly attractive.

NUMBER 3

A mature man plans ahead

Aristotle said that a sign of a mature man is forethought. Part of maturity is having the ability to think future events all the way through with discipline, instead of guessing, wishing and leaving things to luck. When you’ve thought scenarios through, you can move forward with strength and confidence, knowing that you’ve planned for most of what could happen, and the odds are on your side. By doing this, it frees your mind to deal with the exceptions as they arise. With women, a mature man has thought through all the possible situations and scenarios, and has planned accordingly. The immature, Boy-Man thinks that he has done the same, only it’s not the same at all.

NUMBER 2

How to know when you’re manipulating

The Boy-Man uses tricks and techniques to manipulate, and only lives for instant gratification in the moment. Here’s a test that you can apply to see if you’re being a manipulative Boy-Man: Ask yourself if what you’re doing feels manipulative, sneaky or dishonest in any way. If it does, then you’re allowing the Boy-Man inside of you run things, which will ultimately lead you to a feeling of less fulfillment, not more. If the feeling inside of you is one of strength, authenticity and desire to want to add to your woman’s life experience and joy, then you’re on the right track.

NUMBER 1

Commit to becoming a naturally attractive guy

The most important thing you can do right now to attract women fast is to commit to doing whatever it takes to become the kind of guy who naturally attracts women. That you’ll take the time to learn from guys who are great with women, iron out the “quirks” in your personality, and continue moving forward until you reach your goals. The best thing about this is that you don’t have to wait until you’ve arrived to get rewarded -- every step you take to improve yourself is going to feel great..
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