在langkawi的第二天。。。

下雨天的早上，我觉得很幸运因为这两天早上都下雨不过，每当我想出门时，雨都会停而且还会有太阳陪伴，天真的对我太好了，我们今天比较特别想去爬山，于是就到山脚下，走了大约5 分钟就到了一个瀑布，很美又很高的瀑布真的太壮观了，在那边我们呆了半个多小时都是用来拍照的，接下来我们就沿着瀑布走下去，到了一个小湖吧，就在那边丢起了小石头，我的最高记录是石头在水表面跳了4下，建和8下==，我输了。哈 接着就到瀑布还要上的地方看看，真的很美有山有水，过了一会儿，我们便下山去到，沙滩去拍照，蓝蓝的天，加上浅蓝色的海。这次真的有够享受的。

下午了我们还到稻米博物馆去看看，很简单就这样，过后就去买了一些酒给在langkawi 最后一晚的我们享用就这样回到了motel 就躺着休息，想了想还有时间倒不如去市区里走走，就这样我们就驾车到市区到了晚上才在motel 附近吃晚餐，又回到我们喝酒的地方，这次可不像昨天那样了，我还买了烧鱼呢，一边吃着烧鱼一边喝酒真是享受，就在这时候，有一对夫妇牵着孩子拿着蛋糕到我们面前说今天是他孩子的生日，切了两片蛋糕给我们，我们就祝福那小弟弟生日快乐，希望他快高长大^^，我想了想有这样的生日也不错可以得到更多人的祝福。真的很意外也很难忘的经历。

在langkawi的第一天。。。

早上８．００准，我到了槟城的码头，我知道我迟到了－．－　幸好建和没讲什么哈哈，就这样我们两就坐渡轮到对岸去，坐渡轮到对岸需要１５分钟吧，就到了北海的码头，接着就到车站买票前往吉打，多么幸运的我们一买票就上巴士了，这样巴士就开了，就这样什么都没准备的旅行，应该叫流浪吧，一路就这样到了吉打，转车到kuala kedah，买票到langkawi 去，就这样什么都没安排一直找到地方落脚了才慢慢简单的策划一下要到那里去玩，就很随心的要到那里就那里。

我们买了“一些”酒到AB Motel ,在这里要向大家介绍一下AB Motel，它是很经济又干净的 Motel　靠近海边（pantai cenang），是个不错的经济酒店，又靠近Underwater world 路旁也有很多马来餐馆，也有许多著名的餐馆在那里附近，最重要是pantai cenang是外国游客喜欢来的地方因为那里的海边是langkawi最漂亮的海边 哦。打完广告了。哈接下来我们就去吃午餐。。。

吃完午餐后我们就到MAT CINCANG 坐缆车到山顶去看日落，那边的日落真的太漂亮了，我拍了很多照片到时候才分享拉，因为照片才能表达那时候的情景哈哈,过后我们到了一家由敦马开的面包店，面包店前面是一条河，河上停满了游艇，那么迷人的风景真让我有一时的冲动想在那边叫一杯咖啡坐下来享受，不过向前去看了菜单却把我的念头取消了。太贵了，我只好在面包店里买了几粒面包，值得一提的就是敦马真的花很多心思在包装的地方真的让我大开眼界。

之后呢，当然的就回到我们的AB Motel休息啦，到了晚上我们就拖着一大包的装着酒的袋子到海边坐着聊天喝酒，真的很享受，想回那时候真的人生有几回会在海边的朋友聊天喝酒，当然，我和健和聊着的是后也和另一位“朋友”SMS着，建和真paise la 哈哈。

逃避。。

2010年5月16号 星期日

今天早上，我，我妈还有我哥，去北海拜拜，到最后才知道是问神，轮到我的时候那战童在我的手上和腰都绑了线，可能太过自由了吧，偶尔也要被绑一下，哈哈，那战童在我要离开之前说我开车和摩托都开很快，叫我小心点，这句话过后就被老妈碎碎念。sein nia 。 回来后，就呆在家一直到2点多才离开，去足球练习，在练习的时候很享受因为很久没踢球了。

就在回家的时候我差点出车祸，很危险，那车突然间停了，害我杀车杀到傻，那还没什么到家时还被困在电梯里真够倒霉，还是第一次被困电梯呢，不过我都应付得很好，很冷静。

刚才开facebook 的时候我的“好朋友”跟我聊天，说我好像一直在逃避她，她说她一直关心我看我的profile 但我却没有去看她的，我不是不想看只是我不想看到我不想看的东西，当然的我知道我没有权利去管别人写什么，这我知道！虽然说分开将近要半年了，不过那伤口还有在，当我看到我不想看得东西或有回忆的东西就如一把盐洒在我的伤口，还是会痛，我妈今天叫我收拾我的东西，我全都收拾了只有一个黄色的盒子，我不敢收拾因为全都是她送我的最后一份生日礼物， 我会装作一切都不在乎其实我很在乎她，我骗不了我自己。希望我到了中国之后可以将这回忆的痛减低。因为我知道这回忆我一生都忘不了，所以到现在我都不想找女友。因为我不想再有一个被同情的爱情，这个很伤真的很伤。不过我却在学习如何吸引异性因为我知道在工作上得罪女人是不好过的。

你比從前快樂

走在熙來攘往的街頭
妳不再牽著我的手
小心翼翼的將你小指勾
淚也小心翼翼的流

有些事情你在瞞著我
你終於還是開了口
淡淡一句 還是朋友
淚也如刀割

知道分手後你不難過你比從前快樂
那祝福的話叫我如何能夠說的出口
過往的歡樂是否褪色想問你怎麼捨得

不要在耳邊再說你會想我

有些事情你在瞞著我
你終於還是開了口

小心翼翼的將你的小指勾
我的手妳不再牽著

知道分手後你不難過你比從前快樂
那祝福的話叫我如何能夠說的出口
過往的歡樂是否褪色想問你怎麼捨得

不要在耳邊再說你會想我

好久没听了，很好听的一首歌~~

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2010年４月25号 星期日

人生其实真的很短，常常，我们以为已经度过了某些时期，也以为世代已经改变，但是日据时期离我们也没有一百年，当我们嚷嚷着说，: [时代不同了时代不同了] ,但却又没有真的这么不同。

想想你妈二十年前说不定就像某个让你小鹿乱撞的美女路人甲，那时候的她也才刚度过这年轻时期不久，然后不久后，你也会像你妈那样，之后延续下去的就是你的孩子，这样也许才十四年、六十年，那么的短啊！

然而，既然这样[短]，那你的人生又何尝不是短呢？ 所以，现在的你在干嘛呢？

假设人生以一百来计算,你确定度过了前面的20%你就是个成熟的大人了吗? 可是,有多少50%的人现在还像个孩子般做些不该做的事？ 有多少60 %、70%的人还没有找到他们生命的意义？

有时候人们常说[就像梦一场]，这场梦难道不是现实的一部分吗？就像你说你和你的初恋就像一场梦，但这都是曾经是事实不是吗？

那你如何定义梦与现实之间的差别？

那你又如何定义大人与小孩的年龄分界点？

当你放弃一切，用行动追寻某个梦，那就不是个梦，而是你在完成你的现实世界。

你在充实你的人生，那已经从梦变成 The part of your life 。

Form ：《18岁的成年礼》

我不后悔。。。

2010年４月21号 星期三

刚从韩江学校回来，很累，因为我带队到韩江参加光华杯。。。

这是我第一次自己一个人带着学校的足球校队到校外比赛，前几次，我带他们到CRC去练球，我是以老师的身份带队，结果输了，3-0输给韩江,我知道明天我的下场是如何，我知道我必须承担这个后果，因为我看到你们在球场上的拼搏，我真的愿意承担不管后果有多残，多严重，我都会一手承担，也许这就是老师愿意为学生牺牲的原因吧，我知道我不是一个合格的老师不过我也不想我的学生也是我的朋友毕业后有一个遗憾，有遗憾的滋味我知道，我也很了解。

也许明天我会中箭中到很残，我已经有心理准备了！